Thursday, December 10, 2009

The Current Distraction

So I know I was all, no men until I get a job...it's not my fault really. I did not seek this out. A couple of months ago the clit went out on my Blackberry (thank you MommaKiss for the hilarious naming of the rolly ball thingy.) So I took it in and they sent me a shiny new phone...life got crazy and I ended up having to send back my old BB before I could get my numbers ported into the new one. So for quite a while I've received random text messages from unknown numbers..which is super fun. I get a text almost 3 weeks ago and it's T the manchild that made me absolutely crazy in March of this year. We met and quickly hit it off...he was funny, and had excellent taste in music and was quite forward. I could tell he was a little young but, when he said 24, I was on one hand disappointed and on the other turned on. I am 9 years older than him...as far as this goes, I am not interested in teaching anyone. My attraction to younger men comes from pure and simple fun. They don't want to get married and have babies, they don't give a shit how long you've been single, they don't give a shit that you have kids, they don't care about your credit score. They also may work in the restaurant industry and think 11pm is early to go out on a Tues. Back in March we only met once....every other time it was a fucking disaster that made me angrier and angrier with each failed attempt at meeting. He would get out and get too drunk to drive or not get off work when he thought...one time I even did leave to meet him at 11 and he left his keys in his friends car. After that I said just forget it...I couldn't be staying up until 2am and then going to work the next day. It just wasn't meant to be so I let him go.

But now? Now all I have his time...lots and lots of empty hours to fill up. No one wants to go out with me on Mondays and Tuesdays because I want to stay out. I've been cooped up all day, I don't want to meet you at 7 and be home by 10. So I answer his text and the flirting begins...except I forgot....he is a complete freak. We never really explored anything with just the one quick encounter we had. He needs no teaching and did I mention the hotness? He's got that skinny rocker, artsy musician vibe. Like Alexander Supertramp from Into the Wild he's a roamer. He's lived in about 8 places in 7 years (he had a bday) and just picks up and moves where ever regardless of friends or a job lined up with fascinates me. I could never be that way. Ever. Also? Funny...extremely funny...so it's not just like we are hooking up. We are texting all day long, spending a lot of nights together then, lounging around the next day together. Watching silly shit on you tube and just laughing and yes snuggling. So sue me I like him but, just learned his last name. We don't talk about weird relationship stuff we just enjoy each other for the moment and I like that very much. No pressure, no stress...just blissful escapism (with lots and lots of orgasms...25...stamina, the end).

3 comments:

Doc said...

Ahh those were the days.. I had one like you when I was 23 too... That boy is in heaven just like you are.

Lisa..... said...

Skinny rocker! I like the skinny guys. You know, heroin skinny.

MommaKiss said...

yah. just catching up. you're welcome, clit lover ;p